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Welcome to soscafe...
There are no regrets in life, just lessons...so enjoy learning!

People say that you're going the wrong way when its simply a way of your own...


Once you figure out who you are and what you love about yourself, I think it all kinda falls into place...
And then you stop expecting for the unexpected!

I always think, There must be thousands of girls sitting alone like me, dreaming of becoming famous and successful.But I'm not going to worry about them.
Im dreaming the hardest!
-Marlyn Monroe

Sunday, July 27, 2008

That Katta group!

“Its funny how, every single day for 21 yrs, whenever we meet, we have a whole new series of topics to talk about and at that moment we realize an evening is not enough...
I LOVE US!”--- Soha

Growing up in a huge middle class colony has its own advantages. Here there is no time to be alone… no time to get bored!! In short, there is never a dull evening!
From the age of 6 yrs or even before that… we, a mixed bag of 5-7 boys and 6 girls, spent every single evening together…playing hide and seek, chor police, dumb charades…etc…and later, table tennis, carom, cricket, thro’ ball(I still hate that game!) and many such innovative and interesting games!!! Most of these evenings included fights, bruising the knee or an elbow, group politics, howling, screaming, bitching…. But that was the best part of the day for us! A few hours with friends whom we knew so well…we all were almost a family!


Years passed by and we realized we all were growing up….very fast!! Responsibilities increased, career goals widened…and we could not spend those few valuable hrs with each other everyday now… But sitting down on the katta had become a habit! It was almost a compulsive disorder…Discussions of work, life, college, love everything was important at that time… Circumstances changed and some of us moved away, some had no time to hang out…and most of us waited for that Sunday when we all would meet again!
Yes…we had grown up!!!

Looking back, I can only see…

Happiness, unity, and love….This is the power of the bond we share… We were made to play together as kids, but we chose to stick together as Best friends to share our happiest moments with each other and to comfort us in our 'worst' crisis....




And as jasso rightly quoted- “Friendship is the most genuine relationship……no obligations…no formalities….NOTHING at all.
Its only about being URSELF with the ones u r most comfortable with. and as divij will say,' this needs to go into the books...’ sawaal!
Cheers to us… So, Mamty, Jasso, Anshul, Maddy, Nissu, Ak, Div, Divyang, Gaurav, Maanjo, Uru, Joj, Aniket, kunal… n the list continues…

2 comments:

curry said...

did i just "smile" after readin this?
oh yes i did.. it made me smile :)

'Friends'...the topic on 'friends' can just go on na!!??!! :)

kso said...

yesss....its endless....